I'm bombarded with criticism all over the internet right now. People are upset about Paris (and rightfully so!), but others are critical of the France flag superimposed on the FB profile pictures. I read how some are more upset about Paris than Kenya, and still more are critical about how some lives are valued more than others. Can I just suggest something?
Can we take a step back? Just stop. And breathe.
Consider this prospective: we are all one humanity. We all live here on the Earth together. And whether you like it or not, that's the reality.
But all this criticism is getting out of hand. And maybe it's really showcased right now because of all the presidential debates that are going on. She said this. He proposes this. Obama is an awful president. I mean come on. Is anyone else sick of this? No, just me? You think it's just politics, but I think this mindset has seeped into the depths of our society. And criticism is quickly becoming hate. Now people are talking about blocking refugees. Criticism...hate. Just like that. Man, that was quick.
I think it's important to think for yourself critically. I do. I also think it's very important to take a look at why you individually, act or say what you do. But at some point grace needs to enter the scene. No more opinions, let's be gracious. I mean, really. At some point we need to say, I'm going to not be an angry person. I'm not going to act out of fear (that's really what I believe this is). Instead I'm going to *do* something (emphasis on the action of this word) that will benefit another human being that I live with on this earth. Stop making it about you. Stop saying me me me. I read an article that said someone compared the Paris attacks to climate change. Why? Why are we making an event of people's lives about our soapbox? That's enough with the criticism of everything. It's one thing if you're seeking just-thinking and encouraging equality. It's completely another when you bash people to get your point across. And just stop putting a population in a box. Stop saying we have to shut down the country, build a wall, be it literal or figurative to protect ourselves from "the enemy." No wall is going to protect you. It's not. I'm sorry, but you are not safe from terrorists. Do you really think cutting off refugees is going to help? Let me ask you a serious question...what experience do you have in fleeing a life-threatening situation? None? That's what I thought. I have no personal experience, but here's something you probably didn't know about me-my extended family has fled dangerous situations to preserve their lives, and haven't always been successful. I don't really want to go into details, because I don't want a pity party. But I do want to say until you know what it's like to have your fingers cut off, literally, tortured, children held for ransom, you don't really know what these people are going through. Just imagine for a moment-your life is at stake, and the country that offers freedom and piece of mind-they just said, "Nope, not here."
This world is not getting better. I know that the media broadcasts only the negative and positive happens daily all over the place without recognition. But maybe we don't add to the already negative world? Maybe the change starts within yourself. Because this toxic way of thinking you have to be on the opposite line from your neighbor--that's how the hatred starts. So quit with the criticism, and quit acting out of fear. Leave a little space, take pause to really consider what you're doing.
I have to believe in the goodness of humankind. I have to. I guess I just yearn for the day that goodness peeks through more than the darkness. I look forward to that day indeed.
